Joli’s Most Recommended Products for Your Best Silver Hair

The products I stand by and recommend the most throughout my blog, ebooks, and consultations. These are the products I trust most with silver hair. I will keep this list updated with new products that I fall in love with or delete products should formulas change, be discontinued, or a better product takes it’s place.

Table of Contents:

  1. Maintenance with QSH
  2. Clarifying Shampoos
  3. Deep Conditioners
  4. Daily Care
  5. Violet Shampoo and Conditioner
  6. Leave-ins, Stylers, Frizz Control, etc
  7. Oils and Serums
  8. UV & SPF Protectants
  9. Heat Protectants
  10. Heat Tools
  11. Temporary Toners
  12. Towels, Filters, Caps, and Silk Pillowcases:
  13. Blogs & Groups

 

LATEST UPDATE: 7.7.2025

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My Hand-Picked Gray Hair Care Products for Healthy, Vibrant Silver Hair

After 10 years of working with gray hair and helping countless women embrace their silver, I’ve curated this comprehensive collection of products that I personally trust and recommend. Whether you’re just starting your gray hair journey or you’ve been rocking your silver for years, these are the products I’ve found actually work for the unique challenges we face with gray hair.

Here’s what I’ve learned: gray hair is completely different than pigmented hair. It’s often frizzier, drier, and frustratingly prone to yellowing in ways that caught me off guard when I first went gray. That’s why I’ve spent years testing and retesting products to find the ones that truly work for what our silver strands need.

What You’ll Find in My Recommendations:

  • Clarifying Solutions: Gentle products that remove buildup (gray hair attracts everything!) without stripping our gray hair and making it worse off.
  • Deep Conditioning Treatments: The conditioning formulas I swear by to combat that dry hair that is more prone to yellowing.
  • Heat & UV Protection: Because you shouldn’t have to learn the hard way that gray hair yellows from sun and heat damage, and it is permanent.
  • Leave-In Care: Lightweight treatments that actually work for gray hair’s unique texture without weighing it down.
  • Purple & Violet Shampoos: I’ve landed on the ones that actually eliminate yellow tones without turning your hair purple or drying it out.

Every single product on this list has been through my personal testing process. I don’t recommend anything I haven’t used myself or seen work consistently for my folloers and community. I’ve included sulfate-free options for those following the curly girl method, fragrance-free choices for sensitive scalps, and budget-friendly picks that still deliver professional results.

This collection is perfect for: Anyone who’s tired of products that don’t work on gray hair, women in transition who need guidance on what actually works, and silver sisters who want to stop guessing and start using products that deliver real results for our unique hair needs.

Clarify, Brighten, Volumize, Deep Condition, & Maintenance with QSH:

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Clarifying Shampoos for Brightening Gray Hair & Removing Buildup

Sulfate Clarifying:

My number one pick for minerals and product buildup: The Ordinary Sulphate 4% Shampoo

Swimmers Clarifying, and use deep conditioner after: Paul Mitchell Shampoo Three, Clarifying

Sulfate-free Clarifying:

Light Clarifying can be used Daily: ACURE Curiously Clarifying Shampoo & Acure Curiously Clarifying Conditioner

Weekly Clarifying: Malibu C Un-Do-Goo > pH 9 Shampoo (not for hard water, only for product buildup)

 

 

Moisturizing Deep Conditioners for Dry Gray Hair:

Silicone-Free, Fragrance-Free, and Curly Girl Friendly:

Personal Silicone-Free Favorite: Miche Indulge Deep Conditioner

Personal Fragrance-Free Favorite: Routine Wellness Mask

Weekly, Multitasking: Loma Deep Conditioner

Light Protein Treatment: Mielle Organics Babassu & Mint Deep Conditioner with Protein

Protein Deep Conditioner: Miche Strengthen

In Shower Weekly: LUS Brands Deep Condition & Repair

Fragrance-Free Curly Girl Favorite: Jessicurl Deep Conditioning Treatment

Fragrance-Free: Inhasi Deep Conditioner

(These can all be mixed with QuickSilverHair clay except Routine Wellness Mask.)

Daily Gray Hair Care – Moisturizing Shampoo & Conditioner:

Get 20% off SEEN with coupon code QSH20

  1. Seen Fragrance Free Shampoo
  2. Seen Fragrance Free Deeper Conditioner
  3. Seen Fragrance Free Conditioner

Get 20% off LOMA with coupon code QSH20

  1. Moisturizing Shampoo (Also comes in fragrance free)
  2. Moisturizing Treatment (conditioner) (Also comes in fragrance free)
  3. Dry Shampoo

The BTW Co. Daily Care

  1. Daily Moisturizing Shampoo
  2. Daily Moisturizing Conditioner

Pacifica Beauty Pineapple Hyaluronic Acid:

Shampoo & Conditioner Set (Great set for moisturizing drier, more frizz prone hair types.)

Viori:

Shampoo and Conditioner Bars

10% off Viori with Code QUICKSILVERHAIR

 

Purple Shampoo & Toning Solutions for Gray Hair

My top picks for most effective and least drying.

Loma Violet Shampoo and Violet Conditioner

BTW CO Purple Shampoo and Purple Conditioner available in scented and fragrance-free.

 

 

Leave-In Treatments & Styling Products for Gray Hair:

Conditioning Leave-ins, Stylers, Frizz Control, etc…

Leave-ins:

  1. Seen Blow-Out Creme
  2. Seen Curly Creme
  3. Seen Leave-In
  4. LOMA Calming Crème
  5. LOMA Deep Conditioner (multi-tasking product)
  6. Bounce Curl Moisture Balance Leave in Conditioner (UV Protection)
  7. Bounce Curl Avocado and Rose Oil Clump and Define Cream
  8. Curlsmith Weightless Air Dry Cream
  9. Pineapple Swirl Curl Defining Cream
  10. BTW Life Changing Leave-In

Get 20% off SEEN with coupon code QSH20
Get 20% off LOMA with coupon code QSH20

Hold, Gels, Hair Spray, Mousse:

Loma Stylers:

  1. Firm Hold Gel
  2. Fiber Putty (excellent to refresh with or control frizz after your hair is dry)
  3. Curvy Crème
  4. Finishing Hair Spray

GIOVANNI Stylers:

  1. L.A. Maximum Hold Styling Hair Spray
  2. 2chic Ultra Volume Foam Styling Mousse
  3. All-Natural Hair Styling Mousse Air-Turbo Charged

Others:

  1. Cake Beauty Gel-to-Foam Styler, The Curl Friend
  2. Pacifica Beauty Big Waves Coconut, Vanilla & Sea Salt Hairspray
  3. Curlsmith Hydro Style Flexi Jelly

 

Oils & Serums:

  1. QuickSilverHair Squalane Oil
  2. Seen Magic Serum (Heat protection up to 450°F)
  3. Loma Nourishing Oil (Natural heat protection up to 450°F)
  4. Loma Light Nourishing Oil (for fine or thin hair)
  5. EVOLVh – Natural WonderBalm (heat and UV protection great for 2nd day refresh and touchups)

 

Products to Help Prevent Heat Damage and Sun Yellowing Your Gray Hair:

UV & SPF Protectants:

Seen UV and Heat Protection:

  1. Blow-Out Creme
  2. Curly Creme
  3. Leave-In

Bumble and Bumble UV and Heat Protection:

Hairdresser’s Invisible Oil Primer

Bounce Curl

Moisture Balance Leave in Conditioner (UV Protection)

Coola UV for Hair and SPF for scalp:

Organic Scalp Spray & Hair Sunscreen Mist with SPF 30

EvolvH:

Natural WonderBalm Fragrance Free UV and Heat Protection Weightless Serum

UV protection with Buff:

BUFF Adult CoolNet UV+ Insect Shield Multifunctional Headwear

When picking a hat, check to see if it has a UV rating…and go from there.

Heat Protectants:

UNDERSTAND YOUR HEAT PROTECTION LABELS

  • “UP TO 450ºF” USUALLY MEANS SAFE WITH IRONS AND HOT BRUSHES
  • “HEAT PROTECTION” OR “THERMAL PROTECTION” WITH NO DEGREE CLAIM IS SAFE FOR BLOW DRYING AND DIFFUSING

Seen UV and Heat Protection:

Silicone-free heat protection for all heat tools.

  1. Blow-Out Creme
  2. Curly Creme
  3. Leave-In
  4. Magic Serum (heat protectant only)

Loma Heat Protection:

Shampoo-soluble silicone protection.

  1. Nourishing Oil

SexyHair Style: Protect Me Hot Tool Protection Spray
(BEST FOR DIRECT HEAT FLAT IRONS AND HOT BRUSHES)

Bumble and Bumble UV and Heat Protection:

Hairdresser’s Invisible Oil Primer
(BEST FOR BLOW DRYING ONLY)

Paul Mitchell:

  1. Hot Off The Press Thermal Protection Spray
  2. Neuro Prime HeatCTRL Blowout Primer

EvolvH:

Natural WonderBalm Fragrance Free UV and Heat Protection Weightless Serum

Gray Hair Safe Heat Tools & Accessories:

Hair Dryers and Hot Tools:

  1. Laifen Swift Buy Laifen with my code get extra 10% off orders over $100 US use code: JOLI10
  2. Hot Tools Pro Artist 2400 Turbo Ceramic + Ionic Hair Dryer
  3. Dyson Airwrap
  4. Neuro by Paul Mitchell Hot Brush

Flat Irons:

  1. Neuro by Paul Mitchell Ceramic Flat Iron
  2. 3-in-1 Flat Iron Heat Styling Tool

Diffuser and Adapter:

  1. Xtava Black Orchid Hair Diffuser
  2. Universal Hair Dryer Nozzle Adapter SnozzlePro

 

Temporary Toners:

MANIC PANIC Ultra Violet Hair Dye Classic

ALWAYS DO A TEST SECTION: Please note, there are no real and clear CONTROL STANDARDS in the hair color industry, so one company may label something one way when it is actually another.

If you are at all concerned about coloring your silvers and them being permanently stained do a test section underneath. If you love your silvers, err on the side of caution. Even stylists are just now learning what happens with grays and certain types of hair color; because having gray hair clients who want to remain gray and don’t want to damage their silvers is relatively new.

Towels, Filters, Caps, and Silk Pillowcases:

The Perfect Haircare Microfiber Towel

Cotton Tee Towel by Elizabeth Roberts

AquaBliss Heavy Duty Shower Filter w/ Replaceable Cartridge

Reusable Shower Cap

Pure Silk Pillowcase

Get 10% off Curlfriend Collective Silk Scrunchies when you shop with my link.

Or shop for silver match silk scrunchies on QSH

Blogs & Groups:

Check out my friend Katie at Katie Goes Platinum she has gray-t content and blogs on transitioning.

Join Katie and I both, on Facebook, at Silver Revolution for one of the nicest support groups you have ever had.

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As always it is about so much more than the hair.

Shine On, Joli

 

 

 

 

 

 

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